Trying to figure out what I'm not getting about Sally Rooney’s *Normal People*

I have heard so much buzz about Sally Rooney’s novel Normal People that I am surprised that I didn't like it more. Maybe I’m so old that I can’t get too excited about the blooming of young love, especially when it’s this tortured? This isn't really a traditional love story, though, so that's not it....

That's not to say that I didn't find anything to like in this novel. It’s strength is in the psychological unpacking of the two protagonists, Marianne and Connell. Both of them are complex, and Rooney uses their relationship as a way to explore them as characters. These are fully fleshed out characters, and as a reader you understand them, even if their choices make you cringe.

However, while Rooney fully fleshes her main characters through their relationship, that tortured relationship was crazy-making for me as a reader. Why don't they just say what they mean? Why is everything so complicated between them? Is this novel about anything other than whether or not they get together? Although the plot moves through different phases of their life, the central question is always about their relationship with each other. We hear that they have other interests and skills, but they don't actually show up on the page very much.

Also, the chronology jumps ahead in seemingly random intervals. Each chapter marks a later period in time, and there will have been some major change in their circumstances or relationship status. I couldn't figure out if there was a pattern to these time jumps, but it felt a little bit like when someone else is fast forwarding a video and you have no control over when they hit pause or when they speed ahead. For this reason, the story never gains momentum because you don't get to linger on particular moments long enough or even understand how the shift happens to the next one.

I'm happy to be convinced otherwise, so feel free to tell me how wrong I am in the comments below. For the moment, I'm just not sold on this novel.

I received an ARC of this novel through NetGalley in exchange for an honest review.